For many people, ‘peace and quiet’ sounds like a dream, but for those who grew surrounded by inconsistency, unpredictability, or chaos, calm can feel unnerving, unsafe or like something bad is about to happen.

Growing up with narcissistic parents leaves a mark that goes far beyond childhood. It shapes how you see yourself, how you navigate relationships, and even how you choose your career. Many adults who had narcissistic parents find themselves constantly chasing approval, yet never feeling good enough, no matter what they achieve. The roots of this lie in the way love, validation, and self-worth were taught (or withheld) in their early years.